No. Wrong. Being a woman does not give you the right to call any man who disagrees with you an abuser. If you do so, you're engaging in sexism, and you're negating the experiences of women who really *have* been abused.

Your post on this matter was publicly available. If you don't want debate and criticism of your views, make the post friends-only. Otherwise, you don't get to complain if others comment on your public posts. And you *certainly* don't have any justification for calling people who disagree with you "abusers".