I'd like to suggest that "HUGO NAZI" ribbons would be tacky and inappropriate, as inappropriate as the OP's use of the term. I'd also like to say that you're in the right now, but if you keep going on about women, I'm gonna have to thwap you all. :-) The OP is out of line to try and make this about male/female relations. Don't fall into her trap by parsing the situation the same way, please.