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Ben Coates "Why The Dutch Are Different" (Nicholas Brealey Pub.)




A quick overview of the most distinctive features of modern Dutch society, as seen by a young British professional who settled here a few years ago. Despite the "hidden heart" bit in the subtitle, it doesn't go beyond the obvious things — the Golden Age and colonialism; World War II; football; bicycles; the Zwarte Piet crisis; Pim Fortuyn, Theo Van Gogh, Ayaan Hirsi Ali and Geert Wilders; euthanasia, soft-drugs and prostitution; carnival; etc. — but what it says about them seems to be sensible and well-researched.

Nothing much about the arts, except Rembrandt and Vermeer, and not much about places other than Rotterdam (where Coates lives) and Amsterdam (where he works). Maastricht, Eindhoven and Breda appear in the Carnival chapter, and there's a trip to Westerbork in the WWII section, but that's about it for geography.

Coates isn't the most exciting writer: he has learnt one trick, building chapters by breaking up passages of objective background material with short passages of mildly funny subjective experience, and he applies that scheme doggedly throughout the book. But he is clearly good at condensing an argument to the essentials, and doesn't take up more of the reader's time than he needs to.

One minor caveat I had was that the external baseline Coates typically compares the Netherlands to is his experience of a few years in a very high-pressure job in London, which is scarcely "normal" by anyone else's standards. Perhaps because of that, he sometimes picks out characteristics as "typically Dutch" when they could equally well be called "typically German" or "typically Swedish", for example. But I still think this would be a valuable starting point for someone visiting the Netherlands or considering coming to work there.
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Solvej Balle "On the Calculation of Volume I" (Faber & Faber)




I'm still processing this. It starts out with curiosity as Tara Selter, a bookseller specializing in the 18th-century, has been stuck in the same date for 122 of her days, November 18. That is every day when she wakes up its November 18, and everything repeats itself - the rainy weather near Lille, France, the sky, and people who wake fresh to their first November 18, with no memory of the previous November 18s.

Tara has already spent time trying to figure out how to manage this, but now she's struggling and writing about it. Her diary evolves more into a personal exploration of her experience, of being separated from the world which renews each day, from her husband who wakes like everyone else each November 18. I thought of parallels, like the daily caring for a new baby, repeating the same thig every day, in isolation. These kinds of thoughts come to mind, even if they aren't good matches. Because Balle creates an atmosphere which we can somehow very much relate to. I wonder if it's not kind of a Covid book, having been originally published in 2020 in Danish.

An issue I had was trying to pin down where this book was going. What is the point? What is the logic? This is book one of a planned seven. So, it's maybe reasonable not get these questions answered. But it leaves the whole unfinished thing very mysterious. Perhaps Volume 2 will clarify it more.
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Joan Didion "The Year of Magical Thinking" (Fourth Estate)




This is a valuable piece of writing on grief. In December 2003, her husband has a massive heart attack at the dinner table and dies. At the same time, their daughter is in ICU with pneumonia. Over the course of the next year, she goes through an emotional wringer, dealing with the grief and the health issues of her daughter. She tries to make sens of the emotions and thinking she is experiencing, by reference to her peer group, her parents' generation and reading.

I was particularly struck by the book on grief etiquette and how that has changed. Some of what she reported I recognised from the loss of my father (the shock, the bliss of forgetting and the pain of remembering, being side swiped). There is little writing on the nature of grief in the modern age, when faith is not the support it once may have been and when death is kept out of sight; this feels to be a valuable contribution to the subject.

But for those who grieve, and who go through all the changes Didion experiences, she helps us understand that this is just what it is like. Sometimes it helps to know we are not alone when we find ourselves alone.
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Fandom: Stargate Atlantis
Characters/Pairings: John Sheppard/Rodney McKay, Evan Lorne, Radek Zelenka, Laura Cadman
Rating: Teen
Length: 7984
Content Notes: no AO3 warnings apply
Creator Links: Brumeier on AO3
Themes: Mystery and suspense, Psychic powers, Friends to lovers, Complete AU: law enforcement

Summary: Rodney had thought the worst part of his day was coming home from the office and finding a dead man in his living room. He was wrong. But the investigation brought him and John together, and that's when things really got interesting.

Reccer's Notes: This is an engaging story in which Rodney's the head of his own tech company and John's a psychic with clairvoyance and precognitition who works with Lorne, a detective. They get called in when Rodney finds a dead stranger in his apartment, leading to an investigation. The story revolves around Rodney's reactions to John's abilities (mistrust gradually changing to fascination), all while being attracted to him. John is troubled, mostly seeing death and being able to locate killers, after being traumatised by his mother's death. Until he meets Rodney! :D It's romantic, with an interesting plot - an excellent read.

Fanwork Links: Born Under a Bad Sign

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Everybody knows a hot dog is not a sandwich... it's a taco.

(Taken from the comments here.)

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Dione and Rhea Ring Transit

Nov. 23rd, 2025 06:23 am
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Just picture it: Tres leches... confetti cake.

(It turns out I'm not the only person with this idea, which just shows how brilliant it is!)

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Another attempt at plumbing.

Nov. 22nd, 2025 09:13 pm
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Cut out almost all the work I did three days ago and replaced it. Am REALLY hoping that nothing leaks. 
Also went to Farmer's Market for lettuce, bread and beef.  
Got ground up coconut coir to bed the dahlias down in for the winter. Next spring it will be a nice addition to the vegetable beds. 
There are fava beans soaking.  Tomorrow we have to plant them.  Will be my first winter cover crop. 

On Last Lines by Suzanne Buffam

Nov. 23rd, 2025 11:44 pm
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The last line should strike like a lover’s complaint.
You should never see it coming.
And you should never hear the end of it.


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Link

So...

Nov. 22nd, 2025 11:40 pm
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Let's say, hypothetically I wanted to move a whole bunch of feeds I listen to en masse off of Spotify and onto something else, is there any way to do that other than manually looking at each feed, in alphabetical order, and searching it up elsewhere?

Between dog and wulf

Nov. 22nd, 2025 11:22 pm
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What a busy day!

I got up for trans gym this morning, which should be normal for a Saturday but I missed it last week thanks to trainfail, and I didn't make it to the gym at all this week and my mental health suffered accordingly. So it was really nice to be back even if everything felt difficult!

Sadly D wasn't feeling well enough to do gym, but he was feeling well enough to give me a lift to and from and do some shopping for treats from the grocery store in between, which was welcome. It also meant we got a tinfoil-wrapped packet of our friend I's homemade pancakes, still warm when he handed them to D, which was really lovely.

Then this afternoon we had a doggy date! Thanks to Borrow My Doggy, a neighbor found us, said she thought she recognized us from the photos I put on the website, and indeed she was right. She and her husband are retired and dealing with various health issues that mean they need help walking their sweet adorable poodle/Irish setter cross, Teddy. He immediately loved V and I (again D was not feeling up to joining us, he needed a nap), demanded pets from us both and fell asleep pressed up against V while we talked with his humans. We all got along and it seems like we can help each other which is lovely.

Soon after V and I got home, [personal profile] angelofthenorth's friend came over, who soon said "I feel like I've found my people, even though I've never met you two before!" V was delighted at this of course, and I know it's something they and D have always aspired to.

We had a great conversation until D and I had to leave to go see Beowulf at Park in the Past. It was really fun to get to enjoy Beowulf in something approaching its original setting: In a dirt floored, wood-beamed, wool-thatched hut, listening to a bard recite it from memory and in between "acts" some talented musicians play a variety of folk music. We drank mead and D got to eat a wild boar burger. We snuggled up to stay warm and to enjoy each other's company. It was a great evening. Great day.

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Was feeling somewhat November down but cheered myself immensely by watching Bad Bunny in an SNL skit about K-Pop Demon Hunters (which film I watched to keep up with the under-twelve crowd and ended up taking a shine to). I followed this up by getting some of the tracks from the film and then had my day completely made by the fact that I could also purchase the songs in Portuguese. So now I can listen to "Golden" ... or I can listen to "Brilho." {~ ~WINNING~ ~} I didn't care so much for the demon boy-band's main song, but it gains a certain je ne sais quoi (or eu não sei o quê) when sung in Portuguese.

Today at Y's house I asked her middle (13) and youngest (9) sons if they'd heard of the film (OH yes) and if they thought it was just for girls or for everyone. "It's for everyone," declared the nine-year-old. "Play 'Takedown.'" So I played 'Takedown,' and he started singing along.

Speaking of that song, one thing I liked in the movie was the lead singer questioning (for selfish reasons, but still) its no-holds-barred hate of demons. She fools around with changing "When your patterns start to show / It makes the hatred wanna grow" to "When your patterns start to show / I see the pain that lies below," and when her bandmate questions her tinkering, she asks, "Do you really think this is the right song to beat [the demon lord]?" In a meta sense, I think it's interesting to have a work of art, especially one as highly processed and focus-grouped as this one must have been, talking explicitly about messaging and what artists put out in the world.

LOL, how to nerd out over the poppiest of pop culture.
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This is a crossover between the Harry Potter books, the Buffy The Vampire Slayer TV series, and the film Bedazzled (1967, not the 2000 remake), with some other crossovers and Easter eggs, so far including Dogma (1999) and Time Bandits (1981). All characters belong to their respective creators / owners / megacorporations of doom and not to me, please don't sue...

VI - Summer of '99 )

Comments please before I post to archives. For previous parts see:

On Twisting the Hellmouth - https://www.tthfanfic.org/Story-34251/MarcusRowland+Harry+Potter+Undazzled.htm
On Fanfiction.net - https://www.fanfiction.net/s/14336114/1/Harry-Potter-Undazzled
On Archive of Our Own - https://archiveofourown.org/works/54407350

Busy morning but all done now

Nov. 22nd, 2025 11:52 am
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First there was volleyball. It was more fun than usual, actually. And then there was elbow coffee which was more boring than usual, actually. And that is some kind of boring, let me tell you. It may be all groups of very old people or just this one, but bring up an ailment and each and every one of them will bore you to tears and forever sharing their own experiences, the experiences of their family members and and friends of second cousins of the neighbors they used to have 25 years ago.

Hospitals are in the business of ensuring you get the worst care possible. Doctors are the stupidest people on the planet and don't even get them started on pharmacists.

It makes for tedious conversation. At one point I caught Bonny rolling her eyes into the back of her head and I nearly lost it in giggles.

But, now it's done for the week. Whew. And I have no more duties today.

I need a few things at the dollar store but I don't think today's the day. I think today is TV and knitting. My dinner order has been entered to be picked up later and I have sandwich makings for lunch.

Everything is under control... for now.

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Art: Michael and Book

Nov. 22nd, 2025 08:43 pm
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Originally, I just wanted to do an ink sketch as basis for a larger coloured piece, but then thought why not use my new grey markers and practice some more shading with them? For these quickish studies I've entirely ditched the pencil sketch beforehand. It really helps with practice! But it's also why Michael's hairline is a little wonky.
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Posted by John Scalzi

If you’re an author, or honestly if you just happen to be standing near an author these days, then you have probably seen a flood of emails in the past couple of months promising you that whoever is sending you the email can promote [Insert name of one of your works here, even if it is over a decade old] to Amazon/Goodreads/their book club/a nebulous agglomeration of readers/etc. Either up front, or after an email exchange, will come the ask of some amount of money, usually a couple hundred dollars but sometimes more, as “administrative fees” or some such.

Just to be clear, so there is no doubt about these things: Every single one of these emails is absolutely a scam, none of these promoters and/or book clubs are real*, and if you send money to any of these accounts, either directly or through a third-party service, you will get nothing for your money and you will never see that money or those scammers again. Never send money to these people. Ever.

(The asterisk above for “none of these book clubs is real” is there because sometimes the scammers will pretend to be representing an actual online book club and might point to their site or page to give the illusion of legitimacy. They are not legit.)

These sort of scam emails have been around for years, of course, but it seems like there’s a real upswing in both the number and variety of emails. I myself get a couple dozen of them a day recently. Here are the headers of some that have arrived in the last few hours, and yes, emojis are part of headers now, we truly live in a benighted age:

  • Can I Borrow Your Book? …To Show 55k People 👀😂: This one promises me access to book-promo networks across TikTok and Linkedin, which is a cursed combination if there ever was one;
  • Growing Constituent Service’s Visibility on Goodreads During Peak Q4 Discovery”: This one promises exposure in Goodreads’ “Listopia” section, which is asserted to be very important here in the holiday season;
  • Did Amazon lock your book in the basement, or did Jeff Bezos just ghost you? 👻📚🚪: This spammer is trying to neg me into using its “service” by suggesting Amazon is not doing enough to promote The Shattering Peace, an odd statement to make inasmuch as Amazon is one of the book’s publishers (via Audible, who, incidentally, sent me a very handsome marketing document, which they executed upon perfectly) and the book itself was a New York Times best seller;
  • Cinematic AI Visuals for your book”: Because what could be a better way to spend money promoting your work than to pay some dude to type a prompt into Sora;
  • Before the book-buying madness starts…”: This one is using the tactic of asking me if I would like to know more about how they can help me, the idea being that if you actually respond to this sort of soft-pedal approach, they know they have a sucker;
  • Quick Goodreads Visibility Boost for ‘Wildfire'”: Another Goodreads Listopia booster, promising eyeballs for my audiobook “Wildfire,” which is fun, since I don’t have an audiobook named “Wildfire.”

That’s just from this morning, mind you; I cleared out my spam last night before I went to sleep. These were waiting for me when I woke up. Soon I will have many, many more.

“But the email said nice things about my book and it seems like whoever is sending the email read it!” Sure, because “AI” is a thing now and it will spit out highly complimentary lines instantly. Here, look, this is Gemini telling me how awesome When the Moon Hits Your Eye is:

Dear Mr. Scalzi,

I simply had to write and express my profound, uncontainable joy after finishing When the Moon Hits Your Eye. I’ve been a fan of your work for years, but this novel has instantly vaulted to the top of my all-time favorites list. It’s not just a science fiction story; it’s a perfect, shimmering symphony of everything I love about your writing.

But beyond the genius plot mechanics, what truly elevates When the Moon Hits Your Eye is the heart and the humor. Even amidst planetary catastrophe, your characters remain so beautifully, painfully human. The witty dialogue provided necessary relief, making the high-concept ideas feel grounded and accessible.

Wow, Gemini truly loved my book! And it took it mere milliseconds to write that note!

I do suspect that the advent of “AI” is one of the reasons that these sort of scam emails have taken off recently; it allows scammers, at very little cost to themselves (but at significant cost to the environment, energy bills and the local water table of wherever the “AI” data sites are) to personalize their scam pitches and make them seem more legitimate, especially to writers, who generally want nothing more than to know their work has been read and appreciated by someone.

I assure you, these scammers have not read your book. Hell, as you can see above, sometimes they can’t even get right the books you’ve written. These emails are being churned out by the thousands to see who is desperate enough to bite. If they get one nibble out of a thousand emails, that’s going to be a decent return for their trouble. And whoever nibbles is going to get scammed.

Here’s a good rule of thumb, not just for writers but for humans in general: Random unsolicited email wants you to send money? Don’t send the money. Toss the email in the spam folder and block that email address forever.

There are actual independent publicists and marketing folks who can help you promote your work; as an example, here’s one such PR company, who I work with regularly because they query me for Big Idea slots here on the site. These folks have verifiable career track records — for example, one of the principals of this company was head of PR for Tor, which is where I met her, an actual human who exists in the real world. Their contact emails have the same domain as the web site, and are not, say, a Gmail account whose user name includes a long string of numbers. Their client lists include names who are independently contactable and can confirm their legitimacy. And so on.

Do these firms cost money? Oh, my, yes, they do. Do these firms randomly spam thousands of accounts offering their services? No, they absolutely do not.

Likewise there are actual book clubs who would love for authors to come chat with them about their work. They are not going to ask for “administrative” fees or whatever. I do feel sorry for the actual book clubs out there right about now; this absolute flood of spam email means their more modest entreaties for authors to pop into their Zoom session are far more likely to get ported into the trash. Sorry, folks. It’s just how it is at the moment.

So to recap and re-emphasize: Authors, you’re being spammed; yes, it’s a lot and no, it’s not just you; don’t send them any money ever; if you do want actual independent marketing and publicity, it exists and you will have to go out to find it, it’s almost certainly not going to come to you, and in any event will never fucking use emoji in the header of a business email.

Be wary, be suspicious and be safe, and again: don’t send money to random email spammers, ever.

— JS

The Ghosts of Merry Hall - review

Nov. 22nd, 2025 03:57 pm
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Disclaimer - I'm a good friend of the author -but if I hadn't genuinely liked the book, I'd simply have avoided writing a review.


I had high exceptions, as I know Heather - MA in creative writing, judge for the Carnegie medals, etc.
But, also :) far more importantly from where I stand - she's an excellent musician for longsword dancing!

I've done a fair bit of editing work in my life, so I tend to evaluate novels on both how well written they are, and how much I enjoyed the story.

Ghosts of Merry Hall is very well written

You can always tell which character is narrating. Firstly because a new chapter starts whenever this changes, and secondly because they have really distinctive voices.

You learn about Nell - a mother with a teenage daughter who is recently separated from her husband, and Dolly the ghost, by the way they view the world around them.

Dolly desperately wants to make contact with someone, to tell the story of what happened in the past, but making contact with the living is hard. And every effort leaves them more scared and less likely to want to remain in Merry Hall...

As the haunting gets more intense, the atmosphere gets tenser and tenser.

We learn about the past through Dolly's memories - and very interesting memories they are - but Dolly in the present day is desperate for those memories to be more widely know, even if there is a cost to the living.

It's interesting. As a reader, I'm sympathetic to Dolly, but I'm very glad I'm nowhere near her!

I don't normally read ghost stories - I don't really like being scared... So, for me, the book is only a four. But for someone who enjoys a good haunting, it may well be a five.


PS. I love the cover art. It was nice working through the story and realising where each element in the artwork had come from in the story

Book Bub

Nov. 22nd, 2025 03:45 pm
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 I'm taking time out from social media and also reading the news.  It was pushing my stress levels too high (though DW is much better in this regard than Facebook is).

 

But having picked up yet another Pratchett ebook at a low price and another book that looks interesting for under a quid, I suppose I ought to mention it.

 

https://www.bookbub.com/ebook-deals/free-ebooks  allows you to sign up for a mailing list (I limit it to one post a week, as it's too much if they send it daily) that tells you of discounted books on Kobo and Amazon.

 

They're usually popular old classics like Pratchett (that I've already paid for in paper form, so feel no guilt about getting a cheap copy), popular books that have already sold in vast numbers and are now on a brief offer for those who weren't tempted at full price (just read a really interesting biography of Captain Cook that is not something I'd previously have considered reading), and occasionally books that are newly released and they're hoping to generate publicity by getting positive reviews.  I suspect many of the books listed on their website fall into that category.

 

You can tell it what kind of books you prefer, so I get mostly offers for SF/fantasy/non-fiction/bestsellers.  Getting a selection of about ten a week works for me, and I suspect I'm buying about one a fortnight. (I bought two this week, one Pratchett and one by an author I've never tried, but looked interesting)

 

I'm also spending more time reading books in the time that was previously wasted doom-scrolling FB and the newspapers!

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