Mar. 12th, 2007

kevin_standlee: Kevin after losing a lot of weight. He peaked at 330, but over the following years got it down to 220 and continues to lose weight. (Default)
...not Ralph Spoilsport's new-used Body Shop, thank goodness. On the way to work this morning, I stopped at the GM dealership's body shop to discuss repairing the broken rear door latch and also have them install the rear door weatherstripping that I'd purchased but decided not to install on account of not having the tools or time to undertake removal of the old strip. These issues are not critical, but need to be fixed. We arranged for me to bring the van in on Friday morning (they open at 7 AM) and that I'll work from home Friday and Monday to give them time to do something about it. He anticipates that GM doesn't manufacture the part anymore and, if it is indeed broken -- nobody will be able to tell until they remove the inside door panel to have a look at the mechanism -- he'll have to try and get it from a recycler. Fingers crossed that this isn't excessively difficult.

On second though, maybe I could use some help from Ralph Spoilsport. This current body is showing some miles on it. I won't be at BASFA tonight, on account of needing to go home and get to bed early.

Edit, 19:00: Put in the link to Ralph Spoilsport's web site.
kevin_standlee: (Pensive Kevin)
At the risk of starting *ahem* a flame war, I would like to point to an article about what is formally being called "online disinhibition effect," which is how people are apt to say things with less restraint online than they would in person. (And my thanks to Cheryl for pointing me at it.) In short, people flame more often online than they do in person.

Now I personally think this is more common when the person doing the flaming is behind a pseudonym. (By which I mean that nobody reading what you write knows who you are in real life; this is not the same thing as someone who has an odd handle but puts his/her name in his profile -- the rough equivalent if printing someone's real name under their fan name on a membership badge.) I sign my own name to these posts, so just possibly I'm showing a bit more restraint.

I was particularly interested in this extract:
...In face-to-face interaction, the brain reads a continual cascade of emotional signs and social cues, instantaneously using them to guide our next move so that the encounter goes well. Much of this social guidance occurs in circuitry centered on the orbitofrontal cortex, a center for empathy. This cortex uses that social scan to help make sure that what we do next will keep the interaction on track.

Research by Jennifer Beer, a psychologist at the University of California, Davis, finds that this face-to-face guidance system inhibits impulses for actions that would upset the other person or otherwise throw the interaction off. Neurological patients with a damaged orbitofrontal cortex lose the ability to modulate the amygdala, a source of unruly impulses; like small children, they commit mortifying social gaffes like kissing a complete stranger, blithely unaware that they are doing anything untoward.
It occurs to me that there are a series of typically fannish behaviors that fall into this same description, characterized by an utter lack of ability to read emotional cues and emotional signs. Does this really mean that science fiction fans need to have their heads examined?

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