And to be clear, the couple in question were not members of the community that was having the event. So, what you have is someone twice distanced from "fandom" -- not a member of fandom, and not a member of the circle of people who were throwing a party at a con. We all pretty much knew each other, and the couple was not someone we all knew. The party had an open invitation, and the couple had traveled for that.
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Date: 2009-11-02 06:01 am (UTC)